Friday, January 8, 2021

A Medal of Honor

 


I want to talk a few moments on one of the most beautiful gifts our Blessed Mother has given us. She has given us so many, the rosary, the scapular, novenas, water and oil from places where she appeared, and the greatest gift she has given us is her Son

Tonight, I’d like talk about my real acquaintance to the Miraculous Medal. The moment that medal made a difference in my life and I wear it close to my heart to this day, right along with my scapular.

But, first, a little history on how the medal came into existence, why it is so holy as a sacramental, and the power its holds to those who believe.

I’m going to bring us back to the night of July 19th, 1830. A child or perhaps her guardian angel awakened Sister, now Saint Catherine LabourĂ©, in the middle of the night.

At that time, she was a novice in a religious order in Paris.  Catherine Laboure was mysteriously awakened and the angel directed her to the chapel in the convent

And in that chapel was the beautiful Virgin Mary who spoke with her for several hours, and during the conversation, Mary said to her, “My child, I am going to give you a mission.” That was the first Apparition of Mary to Catherine Laboure and nothing else transpired on that visit

Some months later in November, Mary again appeared to the saint in a vision and talked to her about the mission.

In this vision Mary was standing on what seemed to be half a globe and holding a golden globe in her hands as if offering it to heaven. On the globe was the word “France,” and our Lady explained that the globe represented the whole world, but especially France.

The times were extremely difficult in France, especially for the poor who were unemployed and often refugees from the many wars of the time.

Streaming from rings on Mary's fingers as she held the globe were many rays of light. Mary explained that the rays symbolize the graces she obtains for those who ask for them, such as you and I.

However, some of the gems on the rings were dark, and Mary explained that the rays and graces were available but did not come because no one had asked for them.

There was then a third apparition and the Miraculous Medal made its debut. It was in the form of another vision and here our Lady is standing on a globe with her arms now outstretched and with the dazzling rays of light still streaming from her fingers.

Framing the figure was an inscription: O Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.

I have provided copies for you that give the meaning of both the front and back of the medal and how relevant and scripture based they are.

At the request of our Blessed Mother, she said. “Have a medal made upon this model in the vision. Those who wear it will receive great graces, especially if they wear it around the neck.”

There is no superstition, nothing of magic, connected with the Miraculous Medal. It’s not a “good-luck charm”. Rather, it is a great testimony to faith and the power of trusting prayer – that’s the key, trusting prayer.

Its greatest miracles are those of patience, forgiveness, repentance, and faith. God uses a Medal, not as a sacrament, but as an agent, an instrument, in bringing to pass certain extremely marvelous results.

There are so many stories that can be found regarding  the miracles attributed to this powerful medal  

 

I would like to share a story of a personnel nature regarding my real first encounter with the miraculous medal.

Back in the days that I was in the army, in basic training, I was what you would call, very vain. I wanted the glory without earning it

I remember going to the Px just before my first pass when I was in basic training and looked at all the medals you could buy to wear and other items you could decorate your uniform with.

So, I bought some medals, I didn’t earn and a few ribbons and two ropes, one red and one blue. The ropes went over your shoulder and indicated want kind of battalion you belonged and were trained for.

My logic in buying these two ropes was that I was attached to an Army Reserve Unit in Philadelphia, an Engineer Battalion and that the color red was the true color of the Engineers.  So, I put a Red rope on the right shoulder. 

But, there’s a conflict.  I realized I’m in an infantry unit here in Ft Benning and the infantry wear blue. Well, we’ll solve this problem, I just put a red rope on the right shoulder, and a blue rope on the left.

So, with these medals and ropes, I was ready for my first pass in full uniform. I thought I looked rather special and gave me the appearance of this brave young soldier. All glory and so vain.

Got my first pass and as soon as I got off base and some distance away, I put the two ropes on my shoulders, one on my left and one on my right.  The other two guys I was with weren’t quite as bold on the idea and decided not to impress anyone.

I’m feeling good about myself. A couple people stopped and asked what the ropes meant and I said rather proudly – Combat Engineer – I made that up, didn’t even know if there was such a thing.

And so it went until a gentleman in his fifties, with his family inquired about the ropes.  He asked what they were for. I said Combat Engineer.  Wow, he said, really impressed and what do they do? 

that was a curve ball I didn’t expect, never thought of that.  So, quickly I said, “Why they find ways to engineer combat, you know engineers and infantry”. I didn’t think he bought it that answer. “

Oh, really, that’s great, and where did you receive that training, he said.  I said, right here in Ft Benning.

That’s amazing he said, right at Ft Benning, and by your uniform it appears to me you have no stripes on your sleeve, does that make you an E1.  That’s a lot of ropes and medals and ribbons you’re wearing.

I’m beginning to melt. And your name tag says Hallman – so that makes you private E1 Hallman. 

You know soldier, I’m a veteran of the Korean war and WWII and every medal I ever wore I earned, and I’ve earned quite a few including the purple heart, but you’re strolling the streets as a PX hero looking for fame and fame you don’t deserve. He said, are you Catholic? I told him I was.

I’m going to show you one medal you can wear that you don’t need to earn and when you do wear it with love and respect it will humble you.

He unbuttoned a button on his shirt and showed me his Miraculous Medal.  He said, “I credit this medal from saving my life in many of the battles and hand to hand combat I was in”. 

You’re Catholic, where is your medal. Don’t have one, do you?  By the way, the PX sells these as well. I suggest you begin a journey with our Lord, get close to him, rather than getting close to your vanity.

On a street in Columbus GA the next day, I purchased a Miraculous Medal from a religious store and once I put it around my neck it was like a feeling of letting go came over me. I felt humbled and relieved

It’s true, vanity is an idol, and our Blessed Mother woke me up that night to see what really matters in life.  Not how important you think you are.

Sometimes, our Blessed Mother use other people to wake us up. She doesn’t want to lose us so she gives us so many opportunities to find her.

So tonight, we ask our beautiful Mother to help bring our souls to this altar and unite them to her Son who, with his mother, will keep us safe under their wings

 

 

Thursday, December 24, 2020

Merry Christmas Blessed Mother

 

In all my years, I have never welcomed the coming of winter with any joy.  Just don’t like it. Love three out of the four seasons, but never learned to appreciate winter. For a few years now, I’ve looked for signs that may shed some scientific light and truths on the approaching winter – will it be mild or will it be severe. 

 Finally, I’ve found the proven indicator, my scientific evidence. It’s the fuzzy wooly large caterpillar that you may see wiggling across the road in the late autumn. Crawling from one field to the other field with a road in between. Now, for years I’ve been mentally recording these findings and here are the results.

 The more of these orange and brown hairy caterpillars you see, the colder the winter will be.  Last year, there were millions crossing many of the back roads, especially Blue Bell Rd, you couldn’t avoid them with your car, and, my evidence, we had an extremely cold, windy and snowy winter. 

 I don’t understand the significance of why they are crossing the road, but I’m aware of when they cross in large numbers, winters are severe. But, I am very happy to report that this year I saw only two of the little buggers the entire autumn. Prediction, very mild winter.  Now, I’m not a meteorologist, but to me that’s a sure sign – I believe God put these fuzzy creatures on this earth to give us a sign of what is coming, an indicator and for us to prepare.

 Well, we don’t quite have the fuzzy caterpillars in our readings today but, we do have some signs of what is to come.  We are more than midway through the season of Advent, and the Third Sunday of Advent is referred to as “The Sunday of Joy”, or some refer to it as Pink Sunday. John the Baptist is laying the ground work, clearing the path for the joy that is to come in Jesus.

 He says, “There is one among you whom you do not recognize”. John, was telling the Jews, with full conviction, that Jesus had been living among them for thirty years. But, yet, they didn’t know Him, they didn’t recognize him. 

 We are fortunate, because we believe Jesus is really present in our midst; present in our tabernacle, soon to be present on our altar, present in our souls by grace.  But, aren’t there times we feel he sometimes conceals himself from us? Aren’t their times we feel like we’ve lost Jesus, and living in some kind of darkness and confusion? And with that confusion we lack trust and our faith begins to dwindle, and God becomes foreign to us. Sometimes we look for inspiration, a person of great faith to lift our spirits and to help us see Jesus more clearly.

 And we have that person, our Blessed Mother, whose faith was and is beyond our understanding; she believed in the words of the Angel, and when she agreed to become the Mother of God, and with that trust in her God, she accepted a mystery which she did not fully understand. She recognized God in her heart in our Responsorial Psalm, The Canticle of Mary, the prayer of Mary that we know as the Magnicat.

 And when the world seems to be collapsing on us, when the confusion in our faith and trust in God becomes an obstacle in our spiritual life, when the road to spiritual happiness is overshadowed by doubt, when we can’t recognize Jesus amid all this confusion, call on Mary, our spiritual Mother.

 It is said that when we reflect on the Blessed Mother in prayer with trust, and belief, confident that our prayers will be answered, we find life, and that life is Jesus Christ. Yes, Mary has power and takes our prayers to Jesus by presenting them unblemished as a gift fit for a King. The intersession of Mary, our Mother is beyond powerful, it is real and it is potent.

 The Blessed Mother wants nothing more than to rekindle, give life to the spark that unites us with her Son. Yes, to re-connect and help us find Him, to recognize His voice when he speaks to us.

 Today and especially on Christmas, we should be anticipating God not with distress and trembling but with rejoicing, because he has filled the hungry with good things, like our Blessed Mother did on that joyous day the very first Christmas

 Allow the Blessed Mother to bring you to the altar today, to receive Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.

 You know, a single Communion should be enough to fill you with the fervor, the passion for Jesus like that of the Blessed Mother and the saints, yet for many of us it leaves us as cold as we were before. Because we did not come to Jesus prepared.

 Pray to Mary to bring you to her Son. Before and especially while approaching the altar, our concentration must be on the gift of Jesus that we about to receive.  St. Paul tells us “Let us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, who leads us in our faith and brings us to perfection.” That’s how we recognize Jesus with our eyes fixed on him.

 Pray to Mary, our Mother who is so much like we are, she has a heart just like our heart, is made for joy and laughter. A heart like ours for suffering and tears that like us has shed many times. She is our Mother who wants only the best for her children. A mother to console us.

 Over two thousand years ago, our Blessed Mother prepared for the birth her Son, the King, the Savior of the World, and we joyfully prepare every year to celebrate his birthday. Yes, Advent, the season of joy, with the infant Jesus cuddled in the manger.

 And what joy on Christmas morning when you feel and recognize the infant Jesus living in your heart. You prepared, you prayed, you got to know Jesus.

We pray to the Mother of God, our mother, to prepare for us the way that leads to her Son. Her wonderful and sweet heart knows the surest path for finding Christ."  With her help, she will make straight the way of the Lord.

 She will quicken our steps to Jesus, correct and eliminate the obstacles preventing us, because of our negligence and sinfulness to recognize Christ. With her help, we will know the happiness and joy of holding the child Jesus in our arms once more and telling him we will never lose him again."

 There are signs in your life, indicators that if you evaluate them closely, will let you know what road you are on this Advent.  Recognize them. Prepare! Pray to Mary!

 Make this Christmas a special one for Jesus, an exceptional birthday, give him a gift a gift that will bring tears of joy to his eyes. Give him you!   

Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Happy Birthday to the Queen

 

What an extraordinary day for our Church, for us and for all mankind. Today is the day the purest of all of God’s creatures was born. Today is our Blessed Mother’s birthday. Yes, God had plans for her when he formed her in the womb, and to those plans she said yes!  

 Our Blessed Mother, whose faith was and is beyond our understanding; she believed in the words of the Angel.  When she agreed to become the Mother of God, and with that trust in her God, she accepted a mystery which she did not fully understand.

 The true and first tabernacle for our Savior, his first home. And it was by her own blood, that she supplied the Son of God with life. And it was her blood which made it possible for him, the eternal Word, to become one of us, and to suffer and die for us on the Cross.

 Thank you, Blessed Mother, for your yes, for your guidance and for being our wonderful Mother. Keep us always close to you, for we know being close to you we are close to Jesus. With all our heart we say Happy Birthday to the Queen of the universe and Queen of Heaven.

Saturday, September 5, 2020

"Yes" and the rest is history

 

Today, I would like to reflect on God’s most beautiful creature, and yet the humblest of all of his creatures. And she was above all creatures, full of grace. Blessed and sinless.  There can be no room for sin on a soul when you are “full of grace”.

 And she cries out in her humility, “And all generations will call me Blessed”, Yes, all will call her blessed, because blessed she is indeed.

A beautiful woman who said “Yes” for God and “yes” for all mankind. A woman so full of faith and trust in God’s Almighty Word that regardless as to where she was, the Lord was with her. She is a woman whose arms are open to hug every one of her children.

 And what faith? Saint Alphonsus Liguori says, that the most holy Virgin saw her Son in the crib of Bethlehem, and believed Him the Creator of the world.

 I read somewhere a beautiful illustration of her faith. She saw Him born and believed Him eternal, she saw Him poor and in need of food, and believed Him to be the Lord of the universe. She heard Him weep, and believed Him the joy of Paradise.

 And yes, she saw Him in death, despised and crucified, and, although faith wavered in others, Mary remained firm in the belief that He was truly God. Yes "Mary stood, supported by her faith."

 Her faith is the pillar of strength that when we imitate her, she becomes our strength as well. And that strength provides the stepping stones to receive all the other virtues of our Blessed Mother, for she is that model of perfection.

 So many times, God asks each of us to "cast out into the deep", enter the unknown, just like He did with Mary. These are challenges, and these challenges, when accepted, imitate Mary’s trust, Mary’s unshakable faith, moving us forward knowing that she and her Son are with us every step of our journey.

 And what a wonderful feeling when we are blessed knowing that Jesus is really present in our midst; present in our tabernacle, present on our altar, present in our souls by the grace of God. 

And yet there are times of trial. Times where our crosses become heavy and Jesus seems to conceal himself from us? Times we feel deserted, we lost Jesus, and living in some kind of darkness and confusion?

 And with that confusion we lack trust and our faith begins to dwindle, and God becomes so distant to us.

 And in those moments of helplessness we look for inspiration, to a person of great faith to lift our spirits and to help us see Jesus more clearly. Someone to help carry our burden.

 And that consolation, the grace to move forward, the strength to carry that Cross is found by those who pray and trust in our Blessed Mother.

 Our world today, this present age is collapsing before our eyes and for many their faith is weak, and their trust in God is dwindling.

 We are living in a time when the road to spiritual happiness is overshadowed by doubt, when we can’t recognize Jesus amid all this confusion, and chaos throughout the entire world.

 It is now more that ever we must call on Mary, our spiritual Mother, to safeguard us from the dangers that lie ahead, and from the satanic forces that are pounding us from every side. It is our Blessed Mother who will crush the head of that serpent, leading us all to her Son.

 The Blessed Mother wants nothing more than to strengthen or rekindle, give life to the spark that unites us with her Son. Yes, to re-connect and help us find Him, to recognize His voice when he speaks to us.

 Our Blessed Mother is so much like we are, she has a heart just like our heart, which is made for joy and laughter. A heart like ours for suffering and tears that like us have shed many times. She is our Mother who wants only the best for her children. A mother to console us.

 A mother to pray for us, sinners that we are and to be with us today and everyday and especially at our own death, holding our hand, leading us to her Son to be with him forever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, February 28, 2020

Weddings gone wrong


Think back to all the weddings you have ever attended and I’m sure there are more than one that stands out because something unusual happened at the Church or the reception.
But, at a wedding, things can go wrong?  The handsome, cute and very young ring bearer, refuses to come down the aisle, at the reception, the bride accidentally throws the bouquet into the ceiling fan.
Then there’s the toast by the best man, who begins with, “I really don’t like speaking in front of people” and twenty minutes later is still talking .

My wife and I have four children and each of their weddings has a funny or unusual story, but the best was my son Michael’s. His wife to be lived in a beautiful home accessible only by a dirt road.
It poured the day and night before preventing the limo or any car for that matter, from entering the flooded long dirt road.
In her wedding gown, along with the other bridesmaids, they pulled up their long gowns, and barefooted to the limo parked up on the main road. They went to the closest WaWa gowns and all, to wash the mud off their feet.
Then there was a wedding where the grandmother of the bride came down with a virus and couldn’t attend the ceremony, but asked a special favor since she couldn’t be there.

She, said, could someone read from Scripture, 1 John 4:18 which beautifully says: “There is no fear in love; instead perfect love drives out fear.”
Unfortunately, instead of 1 John 4:18, they quoted John 4:18, without the 1 at the wedding: “For you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband.”

Yes, Things can go wrong at a wedding. And at Cana something went wrong at this wedding Jesus attended. They ran out of wine, and in that culture to run out of wine was considered a sign of disrespect.
It was a wedding party, in a small, poor village and the couple were probably poor themselves. Jesus, and our Blessed Mother may have been close to the couple, maybe even a relative.

And, Mary, our Blessed Mother being a close relative may very well had something to do with the organization of the wedding celebration.
Mary is the first to notice, and says to Jesus, “They’ve run out of wine.” There follows, two statements that can sum up this entire Gospel, that can sum up all of Scripture.  Jesus says, “My hour has not yet come.” And, Mary responds with the wisest words ever spoken. “Do whatever he tells you,” she tells the servants.

His “Hour”! For Jesus, this hour was the entire reason why he had come into the world. Everything that Jesus said and did throughout all of Scripture revolved around this hour.
But, the Father, through the voice and heart of Mary, makes this the very hour. She trusts in her Son and knows he has the solution. His appointed time has come.
This “hour”, the appointed time to announce the kingdom of God has arrived, the time when the will of God would be fulfilled.  It was the time Satan would be defeated and the forces of darkness overthrown.

Jesus’ hour has come and for three years he will teach us and show us the way to eternal glory and the culmination of this hour will take place when he is lifted up, in all of his glory, on the cross.
We need to view this hour as not a point in time but as our hour as well. In all things we do, we must hear Mary our Mother’s words, “Do whatever he tells you”. We must trust that God has a solution.

For he will never tell us to go figure it out for yourself, but over and over we read in Scripture, “Trust in God”, he’s already got it figured out for us.
Our Blessed mother’s heart went out to the poor young couple and she interceded for them, not to the servants but to Jesus. She does the same for us.
The interesting thing is she was not dismayed by Jesus’ apparent refusal, nor did she insist on her request.  But so confident and secure in the knowledge of her son, she tells the servants to do whatever He tells you.

Through Mary, the servants followed Jesus’ command.  Not a moment of doubt, not a protest – they simply obey. 
Mary, our Blessed Mother needs to be in our life. She can help with our daily problems, our concerns, our doubts? And how humbling for us to imitate the blind, prompt obedience of the servants at the wedding feast.

There is a call to newness in our readings today. God summons us to something new, gives us a new name, provides us with new experiences, launches us into new ministries, and calls us to sing a new song of praise.
The water was made wine.  But, a miracle much more wonderful that the one performed at Cana is repeated every day on our altars; a little bread and wine are changed into the Body and Blood of Christ and given to us as Food for our souls.
It is then we can believe in the words of St. Peter, “I have tasted the sweetness of the Lord”. And that feast can only take place at the altar of the Lord.

Jesus tells us “come to me all who are burdened”, and our Blessed mother tells us, “Do whatever He tells you”. “Come to me all who are hungry, are thirsty, who are weary”. Come to the table of plenty, and I will give you rest.
God wants nothing more than for our journey on this earth to lead us to him. For some it will, for others it may not. Heaven depends on our true love for God, and so he tells us, “If you love me, keep my commandments”. Like a wedding, In this life so many things can go wrong.

Who better to help us to understand and to carry out Christ’s commands?  Who better can teach me to love my neighbor than she who gave birth to Love Himself? Let these words in today’s Gospel talk to you, inspire you and take them to heart. “Do whatever he tells you.”


You are the grace we need


A True Mother indeed
The Church needs you now more than ever
Mary, the Mother of God, is also our wonderful Mother, a gift from God Himself.  Like all mothers, Mary is there to help us, draw us closer to herself, which ultimately brings us to her Son.  

As the true Mother that you are, your Church needs you now more than ever. We ask that you take our precious prayers, purify them and hand them to Jesus.

St. Louis Marie De Monfort puts it this way, “It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favor of the king, were to go the queen and give her an apple - his only possession - for her to offer it to the king.

The queen, accepting the peasant's humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and presents it to the king on behalf of the peasant. The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.” That’s what the saints and our Blessed Mother do for those who believe.

The surest and fastest way to Jesus is through Mary. Yes, it is through Mary we find true life, and that life is Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Let Mary be your guide to the narrow path.

Mary, Mother of God, and Mother of our Church, pray for us, pray for your Church. Bring new light upon the darkness that we see.


Tuesday, September 25, 2018

A moment of terror for some


Our Mother Mary tells us in the book The Imitation of Mary, “For many, death is a moment of terror; for the Christian, who is filled with love, it will be a time of consolation and sweetest peace”. Let love be your life.

Sunday, September 16, 2018

The favor of the King


Mary, the Mother of God, is also our wonderful Mother, a gift from God Himself.  Like all mothers, Mary is there to help us, draw us closer to herself, which ultimately brings us to her Son.  She takes our precious prayers, purifies them and hands them to Jesus.

St. Louis Marie De Montfort puts it this way, “It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favor of the king, were to go the queen and give her an apple - his only possession - for her to offer it to the king.

The queen, accepting the peasant's humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and presents it to the king on behalf of the peasant. The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.” That’s what the saints and our Blessed Mother do for those who believe.

The surest and fastest way to Jesus is through Mary. Yes, it is through Mary we find true life, and that life is Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Let Mary be your guide to the narrow path




Saturday, September 15, 2018

The fear of the unknown


Today is a day dedicated to Our Blessed Mother, the model of perfection, because of her faultless humility. Today we honor her as the “The Mother of Sorrows”. A woman of generosity, a generosity that goes beyond charity because of selfless love. A woman that trusted in her God because of undaunted faith.

She is the definition of the word trust, as we know it is said of her in Scripture, “And Mary kept all these things reflecting on them in her heart” (Lk 2:19). She always said yes to her God!
And that same faith manifested by her cousin, “Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled”
A beautiful woman who said “Yes” and then with that trust and humility and her loving heart placed the needs of her cousin ahead of her own almighty annunciation.  Mary had faith.

Saint Alphonsus Liguori says, that the most holy Virgin had more faith than all men and Angels. She saw her Son in the crib of Bethlehem, and believed Him the Creator of the world.

She saw Him born and believed Him eternal. She saw Him poor and in need of food, and believed Him the Lord of the universe. She heard Him weep, and believed Him the joy of Paradise.

 And yes, she saw Him in death, despised and crucified, and, although faith wavered in others, Mary remained firm in the belief that He was God.

On these words of the Gospel, their stood by the Cross of Jesus His Mother. "Mary stood, supported by her faith."

And her faith is the faith we all seek. Her faith is the pillar of strength that when we imitate her, becomes our strength as well. And that strength provides the stepping stones to receive all the other virtues of our Blessed Mother, that model of perfection.

 Our faith must be a faith that as St. Leo the Great tells is so great that it will remain unshaken even in exile and hunger, devastation, and the most refined tortures ever devised by brutal persecutors. That is true faith in God.

Helping her older cousin wasn’t the only thing on her mind while traveling by caravan to see Elizabeth. There was the danger. But there was also the possibility she would need to explain her own condition at some point, if not to Elizabeth, but to Joseph.

How would her family respond? But there was that “yes” she said to God, yes, to be the Mother of Jesus.
That yes allows her to place her entire life in God’s hands. A Trust we can all pray for.

Yes, Mary was strong and whatever fears she had were washed away when she finally met Elizabeth and they embraced, both filled with inexplicable joy. At this singular meeting, law gives way to promise, ancient prophecy meets divine fulfillment, and the old bows to the new.

Suddenly, Elizabeth is filled with the Holy Spirit and recognizes Mary as the vessel of God’s salvation. Not with bitterness or envy, but with rejoicing, acknowledging and granting the higher place to Mary, and she shouts with joy, “The Mother of my Lord”.

And Mary, humbly accepted the honor to her by Elizabeth and turned it immediately to the Lord whom her soul magnified.

With faith, the quiet and youthful Mary entered the unknown. With that same faith and trust in God, Mary brought grace and abounding joy in coming to celebrate her cousin’s good fortune.

The love, and graciousness friendship between Mary and Elizabeth invites us to examine these virtues in our own lives. Do we reach out to others?   Is there a fear that prevents us from taking the next step, maybe even into the unknown? Is it the faith we desire, but the faith we sometimes lack.

So many times God asks each of us to "cast out into the deep", enter the unknown, just like He did with Mary. And when He challenges us we must imitate Mary’s trust, Mary’s unshakable faith, move forward knowing He is with us every step of our journey.

Mary carried Jesus within her body.  We too receive Christ into our body in Holy Communion. Today, let us praise the Lord for all He has done in our lives and for all that He has blessed us with, and for that he will wants to do if we allow him to live in our heart. He has mercy on those who fear Him.

Let us praise the Lord as Mary did and ask her for a faith fortified with love in her Son Jesus.  Our Lady of Sorrows, pray for us

Monday, September 10, 2018

The Duty

Immaculate Heart of Mary pray for us Sacred Heart of Jesus hear our prayers

 
O Jesus, You have accepted me as a member of Your Msystical Body, grant that I may not be in it as a stranger, but that I may work for the good of all my brethren.
St Theresa of the Child Jesus said, "How happy I would be if, at the hour of my death, I could have a single soul to offer You! There would be a soul snatched from the fire of hell to bless You for all eternity"

Monday, September 3, 2018

The Perfect Pinochle Hand


My grandfather’s favorite expression was “God does all things well”, and he would say that whether his life was in turmoil with suffering and pain or when life was good. And he was a holy man. I remember one Christmas Eve, when my wife and I, before we were married, visited my grandparents. At the time my grandmother was suffering from Alzheimer’s but when we visited we always managed to begin a game of pinochle before my grandmother forgot what game we were playing.

 On this one Christmas Eve, the four of us were seated around a card table, and my grandmother, being the thoughtful person she was, went into the kitchen to bring us some snacks.  Unfortunately, after three trips and no snacks, she asked us what she was doing in the kitchen. We politely told her and as she left again, I could see the deep love and concern my grandfather had for her.

 He said, let’s put a pinochle hand together for your grandmother, a Christmas gift she’ll never forget.  We did, a run, a hundred aces, eighty kings – a hand you could only hope for in your dreams. She came back with sodas, which we already had and sat down and slowly organized the cards in her hands – and with each card, her smile grew wider and ohs and ahs were whispered, her eyes lit up. She was so proud of herself, the happiest she had been in a long time.  We knew she’d forget how to play the hand she was dealt. And my grandfather smiling and holding back the tears he looked tenderly at my grandmother and said, “I love Christmas. God does all things well”.

And on this glorious night, we can say “Yes, God does all things well” .On this night, we are with Mary and Joseph, we are there in a cold and dreary stable, just waiting. This is a night of expectations, a night of miracles. A night of excitement both for children and for parents.  A child is to be born, the child, Jesus, that is the reason for this very night.

It is a night of many hopes and joy from heaven and from earth. In that scene in Bethlehem over two thousand years ago, Heaven and earth rejoiced, because something new has happened; the age of God’s fulfillment has arrived on this very morning we call Christmas.
No longer will people walk in darkness. Right there in a cold and dreary stable makes me believe God does all things well.

Heaven and earth rejoice. God the Father, who sent his only Son to be born to a Virgin is eagerly waiting His gift to us, his miracle. The Holy Spirit is waiting, who overshadowed the Virgin Mary and she conceived a Child to be born under the Star of Bethlehem.  

And, Mary, the expectant mother who said yes to be the Mother of Jesus, the Son of God, is now resting, waiting in a cold stable, soon to be holy ground. And the choirs of angels singing for joy as they anticipate this heavenly and glorious miracle.

We know the obedience of Joseph and we know this humble man is there with Mary.  Joseph, husband of Mary, anticipating the most wonderful miracle to ever take place on the face of the earth, and this cold and damp stable becomes a waiting room for an expectant father. 
Yes it is a silent night, a Holy night. At that very moment all was calm, all was bright for truly, God does all things well.

And, Joseph, the epitome of both husband and father was chosen by God to be the spouse of Mary. God chose Joseph, and in Joseph the New Covenant will be brought about by the working of the Holy Spirit. What a miracle, Joseph becomes the foster father of Him Who is Himself the New Covenant, a covenant which is immediately a fulfillment and a sweeping renewal of everything that was, is and will come to be.

Why Joseph? And why is Joseph the image that every father should hold close to his heart. The image of the person whose actions and love for the Holy Family are to be imitated in every man’s own marriage.
And why is Joseph the spiritual, loving and caring person that every wife and mother should hope for in a husband and father of her children.

Because in Joseph we see the strong and silent man, a man who shouldered the story of Mary, who dreamed and trusted in every word of God, whose very faith and devotion pleased God. God came first in all things for Joseph.  
And God chose him. And Joseph said yes. And Like Mary, Joseph chose freely to accept his role in Jesus’ salvation, placing all his trust in his God. 
And now they are alone, Joseph and Mary, alone in a place certainly not suitable for a birth of any child. But they are not in darkness.

A man full of love and compassion, Joseph respects Mary’s essential self-abandonment to the Father and he lives the same mystery as she does – a mystery of total surrender of one’s entire life into the hands of the Father.

Generously and with full humility, he weds himself to the working of God’s Spirit within Mary and he lives her secret, a secret which binds her so personally to the Father.  It is a true love of husband and wife, a God centered marriage, sharing the same intention that forms the foundation of their love of friendship, a love which is so divine, so strong and yet, so unique. And to this holy family, a child is born this night in a little town of Bethlehem.

And tonight, we can see it, touch it, we can even taste it, the mystery, the miracle of God’s favor that is upon us as we celebrate Jesus’s birth. And Joseph was there, silent and courageous, a man with a tender heart.

And tonight the holy family is born, Jesus, Mary and Joseph. The holiest of all families is born in a cold and dreary stable. Yes, Joseph knew that Mary belonged to God alone and God has every claim on her.  How can we not see the divine love that he has for Mary, for he loves her for herself. He loves her in order that the will of God be fulfilled in her. A marriage of pure unselfish and generous love.

The true and generous love of Joseph for Mary is the same unselfish love we should have for each other in our own marriage, in all of our relationships. Difficult yes, but God driven, for Joseph does not love Mary for himself; his love gives him no claim, no entitlement to Mary, but only love and respect.

 A man and a woman, a husband and a wife, a love for each other that has no bounds.

Yes, Joseph, chosen and tested by God to be the Father of Jesus, a model for all fathers, and he lives for Mary, a man who places God first in all things, a man who behaves like God himself. That is a man, that is a husband, that is a father.

Yes, over two thousand years age, they are alone in a stable, preparing the manger with a bed of straw, for a King to be born.  Like any expectant father, Joseph is nervous, it’s all new to him, a mystery and a heavy responsibility. He probably paced the stable floor, and undoubtedly tenderly asking Mary how she was doing.  And Mary, so young and frightened as well, but yet felt so secure. She knew she was chosen to be the Mother of God, but she also knew, Joseph was chosen to be her protector.

There’s the old saying “you play with the hand you are dealt with”. But, besides my grandmother, who was ever dealt a perfect hand? Who has the perfect marriage, the perfect children, the perfect spouse? Joseph and Mary begin married life in a stable. But, what they did pleased God, because he was always first in their lives.

 And when we follow the example of St. Joseph and live a God centered life, we can, with the help of God, see a great light and win the hand. Pray for the faith of Joseph, the trust of Joseph and the love and selflessness of Joseph.

 No, it’s not in the hand you’re dealt, it’s where you place God in that hand. And it’s in that very hand, God does all things well. Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday Jesus!


Thursday, August 30, 2018

Reward or punishment

God alone is great, and only He can bestow truly great recompenses, In hell there is divine punishment, in heaven Divine reward.

If you have the good fortune, my child, to save your soul, you will see the Lord. You will possess and love Him, and never grow weary of seeing, possessing, and loving him, for though He is ever the same in Himself He is always new to the blessed. (The Imitation of Mary)

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

The Church needs you now more than ever

Mary, the Mother of God, is also our wonderful Mother, a gift from God Himself.  Like all mothers, Mary is there to help us, draw us closer to herself, which ultimately brings us to her Son.  

As the true Mother that you are, your Church needs you now more than ever. We ask that you take our precious prayers, purify them and hand them to Jesus.

St. Louis Marie DeMonfort puts it this way, “It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favor of the king, were to go the queen and give her an apple - his only possession - for her to offer it to the king.

The queen, accepting the peasant's humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and presents it to the king on behalf of the peasant. The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.” That’s what the saints and our Blessed Mother do for those who believe.

The surest and fastest way to Jesus is through Mary. Yes, it is through Mary we find true life, and that life is Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Let Mary be your guide to the narrow path.

Mary, Mother of God, and Mother of our Church, pray for us, pray for your Church. Bring new light upon the darkness that we see.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

The Queen of all

Today is the beautiful feast of our Blessed Mother's flight into heaven,  The Feast of the Assumption , and is a reminder for all of us that entrance into heaven is purity of heart. It is being free from sin with a focus on God alone. Can you imagine the peacefulness of watching The Mother of God taken up into heaven. Can you imagine the great joy of that union with God, the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. And that is the great truth, that we were all created with that purpose in mind, our union with our God.

So, today we pray for her intercession, to plead for our mercy to a merciful God. We keep our eyes on this Immaculate creation of God and we know with great faith, she will guide us and strengthen us towards our heavenly goal. Queen of heaven pray for us!

Tuesday, August 14, 2018

It's not in this world

"He who knows Jesus despises all else, and the world means nothing any longer to them who have tasted the sweetness of Jesus' love" - The Imitation of Mary

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Our True Model


And as Jesus hung dying on the Cross He said some of the most inspiring and everlasting words, Woman behold thy son, to John he said behold thy mother. Jesus, at that moment gave his beautiful mother to us as our Mother. All out of love for us.

And Mary remains and forever will remain our Mother, and we should go to her always in prayer, because She brings us to Jesus in our prayers. One is so at ease when near one’s mother.  With her everything becomes easier, the weary, discouraged heart, disturbed by storms, finds new hope and strength and continues on with this life with new strength and courage.

Mary is our model, Mary is our guide. And she comes to us when we call. Mary is love and our protection.

St. Bernard tells us, “if the winds of temptation arise, if you run into the reefs of trials, look to the star, call upon Mary.  In danger, sorrow, or perplexity, think of Mary, call upon Mary”.

The Duty of the Apostolate

The Duty of the Apostolate

 
O Jesus, You have accepted me as a member of Your Msystical Body, grant that I may not be in it as a stranger, but that I may work for the good of all my brethren.
St Theresa of the Child Jesus said, "How happy I would be if, at the hour of my death, I could have a single soul to offer You! There would be a soul snatched from the fire of hell to bless You for all eternity"

Mary our Mother

Mary, the Mother of God, is also our wonderful Mother, a gift from God Himself.  Like all mothers, Mary is there to help us, draw us closer to herself, which ultimately brings us to herSon.  She takes our precious prayers, purifies them and hands them to Jesus.
St. Louis Marie DeMonfort puts it this way, “It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favor of the king, were to go the queen and give her an apple - his only possession - for her to offer it to the king.

The queen, accepting the peasant's humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and presents it to the king on behalf of the peasant. The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.” That’s what the saints and our Blessed Mother do for those who believe.

The surest and fastest way to Jesus is through Mary. Yes, it is through Mary we find true life, and that life is Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Let Mary be your guide to the narrow path.

Saturday, November 11, 2017

Our guide to eternal life

Mary, the Mother of God, is also our wonderful Mother, a gift from God Himself.  Like all mothers, Mary is there to help us, draw us closer to herself, which ultimately brings us to herSon.  She takes our precious prayers, purifies them and hands them to Jesus.
St. Louis Marie DeMonfort puts it this way, “It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favor of the king, were to go the queen and give her an apple - his only possession - for her to offer it to the king.

The queen, accepting the peasant's humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and presents it to the king on behalf of the peasant. The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.” That’s what the saints and our Blessed Mother do for those who believe.

The surest and fastest way to Jesus is through Mary. Yes, it is through Mary we find true life, and that life is Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Let Mary be your guide to the narrow path.




A Medal of Honor

  I want to talk a few moments on one of the most beautiful gifts our Blessed Mother has given us. She has given us so many, the rosary, the...